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Old Oak
Do they have you wearing a neck brace?
HahaGreat job Duke.
Best wishes to Mrs Duke (does that make her Duchess?) and EtV.
Do you have to use stairs in your home? They told her not use the second floor ie, no stairs. Luckily we live on the main level .Frustratingly not. Chin wants to droop onto chest.
And, by mistake, I keep lifting things that are too heavy ("half-full kettle - maximum"). It's way too easy to forget, e.g. rinsing the coffee pot (because I usually fill it full to clean it, and it's only water!), or, the really stupid one last night, trying to move a standard lamp (brain tells you it's not heavy, and no alarm goes off until it's too late!). I aam hoping these mistakes are just painful, and won't affect actual healing...
Legs: really sympathise with your wife's trials: I have had right foot droop and leg weakness steadily getting worse for a few years. A week ago, I could easily fall over on plain flat surfaces, as my toe would catch - muscles fine, but no nerve control. You get used to it, but I have ruined a decent pair of shoes by wearing just the tip of the right front shoe, right through to the upper stitching. Left is fine.
So I can guess a bit what your wife is coping with, but...
... It is ridiculously early days (op was Thursday afternoon), but I think I can already see a small improvement - right leg seems to want to behave better. It might just be the drugs ("woo-hoo, these are good!"), but I think it's real. "Plumbing" also significantly better (the last insult, pre-op) - I refuse to be incontinent until at least my nineties!
Sometimes she thinks she is a queen.Great job Duke.
Best wishes to Mrs Duke (does that make her Duchess?) and EtV.
......They told her not use the second floor ie, no stairs......